PARENTS IN ISLAM…
Assalaamulaikum Warahmatulahi Wabarkatahu dear respected brothers and sisters.
Dear brothers and sisters, it is a rising concern in the Ummah, of how badly we as children treat our parents, we forget that treating our parents with kindness and being just to them is a COMMAND of Allah Subhana Wa Ta'laa, The Almighty, The Over-Powering Lord of the Worlds!!!
Dear sisters and brothers, let the below narration serve as a reminder to all of us, in how our conduct should be towards our parents, and if we do not fulfill this command, the abode of Jahanaam that awaits in the hereafter and the torment we may face!
We are Alhumdulilah currently at the age of youth in which marriage is on most of our minds, or at the back of our minds (or in most cases brothers and sisters are thinking about marriage or avoiding it), so brothers let the below narration be an advice and guide to you for your future married life Insha'Allah in how you should be as a husband and a SON, and sisters, let the below narration be a reminder to us, in how we as WIVES insha'Allah must be careful and wary of what our husbands do, and how they treat their parents!!!
Hadhrat ibn Abbas Radi Allahu Anhu said:
“At the time of the Prophet Sallallahu ‘Alayhi Wa Sallam, there was a young man named Alkamah. He used to work very hard and give his earnings to charity. One day he became very ill. His wife sent a message to the Prophet Sallallahu ‘Alayhi Wa Sallam. The Prophet Sallallahu ‘Alayhi Wa Sallam sent Bilal, Ali, Suleman and Amar Radi Allahu Anhum with these words,
‘See how he is.’
They went and found that he was indeed very ill and close to death. They spent some time trying to make him read the Kalimah, but something was holding him back. Bilal Radi Allahu Anhu returned to tell the Prophet Sallallahu ‘Alayhi Wa Sallam about his condition.
The Prophet Sallallahu ‘Alayhi Wa Sallam asked,
‘Are his parents alive?’
Bilal Radi Allahu Anhu replied, ‘His father has passed away, but his mother is still alive.’ The Prophet Sallallahu ‘Alayhi Wa Sallam told Bilal Radi Allahu Anhu to call his mother and if she couldn't come then the Prophet Sallallahu Alayhi Wa Sallam would come to her.
As soon as Alkamah’s mother heard, she grabbed her walking stick and came right away. She did Salaam and the Prophet Sallallahu Alayhi Wa Sallam returned it and asked,
‘Tell me truthfully, if you don't, then I will learn by revelation. What sort of deeds did your son do?’
She told the Prophet Sallallahu ‘Alayhi Wa Sallam that he was a very pious man, that he used to read prayers consistently, fast constantly and give alms abundantly. The Prophet Sallallahu ‘Alayhi Wa Sallam asked her how he was with her. She said, ‘I am upset with him. Instead of me, he gives preference to his wife. He used to disobey me and listened to his wife.
The Prophet Sallallahu ‘Alayhi Wa Sallam said to her,
‘Your displeasure has stopped Alkamah from reciting the Kalimah.’ The Prophet Sallallahu ‘Alayhi Wa Sallam then ordered his Companions to gather some wood and to burn him.
The mother asked whether they were really going to burn her son in front of her? The Prophet Sallallahu ‘Alayhi Wa Sallam told her,
‘Allah's punishment is much greater. If you want Allah to forgive Alkamah, you must first forgive him yourself. His praying, fasting and alms-giving will do him no good.’
His mother raised her hands and said, ‘I have forgiven him.’
The Prophet Sallallahu ‘Alayhi Wa Sallam sent Bilal Radi Allahu Anhu to check on Alkamah. He was reading the Kalimah. Alkamah died that very day. The Prophet Sallallahu Alayhi Wa Sallam arranged his funeral and led his Janazah.
After that he stood up and addressed the people.
‘The person who prefers his wife rather then his mother, Allah’s curse be upon him. His faraaidh and nawafil will not be accepted."
SOURCE: http://www.inter-islam.org/RightsDuties/parents.html#IMPORTANCE
May Allah Subhana Wa ta'laa make us better children to our parents, and continually strive to better our characters in all aspects of life, Ameen!
Wasalaamulaikum Warahmatulahi Wabarkatahu! x
6 comments:
salaams all
just wondering y the blog is sooo dead, i mean wher r all the writerz? for da whol of oct we had 3 articles....c'mon ppl thers so many issues dat can b discussed.... i think we need abdus-subhan and amatullah bak on dis blog
wow mashallah. that was a great story to read. jzk for this post as you're ryt, the treatment of our parents is a big issue today, even the most practising brothers and sisters would show disrespect or bad treatment towards their parents.
may allah reward you x
i agree with the first comment...this blog is gone dry...but this post was good mashallah.
is this site shutin dwn?? is dat why nobodys writing new posts?
Assalamu Alaykum
Great post sister. and jzk for taking up your time to produce these posts. also jzk to all the other brothers and sisters who post articles as well. i really appreciate it.
keep up the good work, and i would like to say that i have always enjoyed visiting the blog and i still do.
I hope that inshallah, the leyton isoc will be a success and many brothers and sisters are guided to the straight path. ameen. I hope Allah rewards us all greatly for the efforts and contribution we make towards the islamic society. ameen.
Wassalaamu Alaykum Wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatu
Your sister in islam xxxxxxxxx
Mashallah ! keep up the good work. We all dont know each other but we all have the same goal to please Allah (swt). Stay strong and keep up the posts i came across this and did not read a single thing but the title and was pleased mashallah. ill keep reading but im happy thanks hope you all get good deeds. Peace salam
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